The news of Dave Hand’s passing has left an immense ache in the hearts of all who knew him, watched him, or were touched by the warmth he brought into every room. Often lovingly referred to as the “Big Friendly Giant,” Dave was a towering presence not just because of his impressive 200cm height or his striking tattoos, but because of the kindness, humour, and authenticity that radiated from him. He was the kind of man who could make a stranger feel at ease within minutes and make a friend feel valued for a lifetime.
Dave’s journey into the public eye on Married At First Sight showed Australia—and the world—what those close to him had always known: beneath his strong exterior lived a heart that sought genuine connection and gave nothing less than sincerity in return. His vulnerability, especially as he opened up about his father’s cancer battle and his own search for meaning and love, reminded viewers that strength is not just physical—it is emotional honesty, courage, and compassion.
Though his relationship on the show ultimately didn’t last, Dave’s willingness to try again, to grow, and to put his heart on the line spoke volumes about who he was. Whether working as a talented builder in Victoria or stepping into another adventure in the Netflix dating world, he carried with him an optimism that inspired those around him. He enjoyed life’s simple pleasures, cherished authentic laughter, and embraced a little goofiness—because to Dave, joy was meant to be shared.
With friends, he was loyal. With family, devoted. With love, he was generous, thoughtful, and endlessly hopeful. His dream was never complicated: to find someone with a natural smile who could be her true self, someone who could laugh with him, grow with him, and bring out his softer side.
To lose someone like Dave is to lose a light—a gentle energy that made the world feel just a bit safer, kinder, and more open. Today we honour not just the man we came to know, but the legacy he leaves behind: authenticity, warmth, courage, and the reminder that even the biggest giants can have the softest, most beautiful hearts.
May his memory be a blessing, and may those who loved him find comfort in the imprint he leaves behind.